سرعت انزال مردوں کے جنسی مسائل میں سرفہرست ہے۔ یہ صورتحال نہ صرف ذہنی دبائو اور ازدواجی مسائل پیدا کرتی ہے بلکہ اکثر بانجھ پن اور بے اولادی کی وجہ بھی بنتی ہے۔ ایسے میں جنسی صحت کے مارین سے رابطہ اور مشورہ کرنا ازحد اہم ہے۔ اس سے نہ صرف آپ اپنی صحت بہتر کر سکتے ہیں بلکہ اس بیماری کے باعث ہونے والی دیگر وجوہات کا بھی سدباب کرنے میں مدد حاصل کر سکتے ہیں۔
The DSM 5, a diagnostic manual used as a guide for the diagnosis of psychological disorders describes premature ejaculation (PE) as a sexual disorder in which the person’s ejaculation requires very little sexual stimulation or occurs right after penetration, without the desire of the person to ejaculate at that time. This condition also causes distress in the individual.
It is a type of sexual dysfunction that possesses great potential to damagingly affect the person’s sexual life and its quality. While reproduction is also hindered by this sexual dysfunction, one of the main problems that it ensues is the sexual dissatisfaction experienced by both the sexual partners.
The medical symptoms, of premature ejaculation, particularly its more persistent type, include the following:
After the medical symptoms come to the psychological symptoms. Either or both partners can experience these. They include:
A part of the problem lies in the chemistry of the brain; it has been found through research that men with more inhibited levels of serotonin within their brains often develop this problem. Nevertheless, there are emotional aspects to this condition as well as the person might be stressed or depressed. He could feel overly anxious about how they perform in sexual intercourse. Hence, he might have some guilt regarding the relationship. Relationship problems also can lead to premature ejaculation.
It can also happen to men who have erectile dysfunction as they cannot get their genitals properly erect for intercourse. They might worry too much that they would lose their erection which then ends up rushing their ejaculation. This could prove to be a very hard pattern to overcome.
The risk factors reflect a lot of the causes of this dysfunction. A close relative with this disorder could increase the risk. Furthermore, males who have lower levels of serotonin are also at a higher risk. So are those who have a history of depression or anxiety. Another more direct risk factor is if the individual has an erectile disorder in which there are problems in his erection.
Certain measures can be taken to prevent premature ejaculation. These measures include stimulating the genitals to receive climax about one or two hours before intercourse and using a condom that is very thick so that the sensation could be minimized. One could also try to breathe deeply to hinder the ejaculatory reflex. Further measures include having intercourse with the partner in a position in which they could pull away whenever the male is about to ejaculate and taking breaks in between intercourse and the male repeatedly distracting himself in order to delay ejaculation.
Couple therapy can also help, especially if they are in a long-term relationship.
There are various types of premature ejaculation: